Should You Share Your Deep Dark Secrets With Your Partners?

Should you share your deep dark secrets with your partners? There is one of many questions that raise issues in many relationships and answers ranging from Yes to No to so many other different views and how or how it it should be done or when. Its views have caused many breakups, instabilities, stagnancy, rifts and the likes in relationships.
I am one who strongly believe and go for the view of sharing all, laying the plains, being totally open and sincere irrespective of how it would be accommodated and letting life as God will have it happen then relaxing to see the turn of events. I use to be one who believed in if possible coming out with your pasts even before the relationship happens and see how this potential partner can deal with the details, accept it and put it to the past rather than getting the details in the relationship then giving me the heartbreak thing to deal with when we are finally in it but of recent with things I have been able to gather and even experienced, so I just may be available to go on with the previous thoughts of mine.
I would like to know and listen to your various views to this topic and allow other readers get newer and broader opinions…Thank You so much!

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  • Tumininu
    June 8, 2016 at 6:22 pm

    I believe that you should be able to share your darkest secret in case of any occurence in the future. I for one would not like my partner keeping those kind of things from me. Your partner should be able to love you and all tht comes with you, it could ruin the relationship if he/she finds out afterwards, not to talk of hearing it from someone else. That’s my take anyway

    • horptie
      June 8, 2016 at 8:09 pm

      you can say that again. Thank you!

  • theKennyDisu
    June 8, 2016 at 7:18 pm

    A true partner will stick with you irrespective of your pasts
    or secret(s). It’s better for your partner to know all that’s there to know during courtship than find out the secrets after marriage. Trust will melt away like ice in the Sahara.

    • horptie
      June 8, 2016 at 8:02 pm

      I totally agree on that. What timing should it be to reveal all…during the relationship; at its start or when you see it headed in a future direction?

  • D. E
    June 8, 2016 at 10:00 pm

    Trust….will definitely reveal when we get too well in knowing each other..

    • horptie
      June 11, 2016 at 7:17 am

      hmmm…okay.Thank you.

  • wealth
    November 13, 2017 at 7:42 am

    it’s best to share bcos it could be disasterous for ur spouse to find out themselves

    • horptie
      November 13, 2017 at 9:50 am

      You are absolutely right. Let me remind us all, who will stay will stay… Trust God!


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