“…Before You Say Yes!”
     
What do you think are the things to look for in a person before entering a relationship?
The beauty would fade off…The wealth could just vanish…Love could be at stake…Characters could change…The Chemistry may lessen…Personality can cause insecurities…Appearance could stir up jealousy…Public Show-off becomes an issue eventually…Premarital Sex is never an option…and so many more!
                   
These above are my views on it,may and may not be true nor be acceptable…Lets know your take on this issue and help others get back on track.Thank You 🙂 !
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horptie
Colleagues call me Horptie, friends and family call me Titilope, my favorite though is Tytylurpe. I am a combination of all three. A Relationship Counselor, rational psych, transitionist yet a whelming being in all sense of the word.
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Ashey Klery
June 15, 2016 at 8:52 pmPatiently wait for the right one, ensure your actions deserve the best before you start hunting for the right one. Ensure that you deserve the person and the person deserves you in all ways before saying a yes.
horptie
June 16, 2016 at 7:35 pmoh yes, that is necessary. Thank you Ashey!
tomrains
June 15, 2016 at 9:04 pmI think absolutely the most important things for a long-term relationship is to have the same VALUES!
horptie
June 16, 2016 at 7:32 pmhmmm, yea…thats one and I agree!
Thanks for your comment.
Samorgan
June 16, 2016 at 11:10 pmBefore you say Yes, I believe you should have a goal which the other party agrees to right from the start,and also to have regular checks and balances, to keep your heads right and unswayed by emotions. Understanding each other is highly key,because times will come when the emotion of “being in love” will fail…but “the choice of loving the partner” must remain on an unshakable foundation.
horptie
June 17, 2016 at 8:36 pmhmmmm, you say! Thank you Samorgan.