It’s been so long hearing from me right?
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So I had (have) this guy friend that was always calling and checking up, you know that sorta…
We met at my former place of work. He was
a regular client and I was a polite and friendly Client Relations Officer, and so we clicked, as many other persons I have had to attend to, or let me say a lot of them and not all.
Anyways, this dude whenever he called was always fusing about how I haven’t checked on him nor reciprocated any of his calls and I’m like the number of times I’ve wanted to, he was always beating me to it by calling yet again (If you know, you know 💁♀️).
I recall seeing a band on his ring finger but I wasn’t sure… he looked young plus it doesn’t always seem to count as married nowadays with how people have taken fashion but nonetheless I was being careful and maybe a little reserved when it comes to him and how I dealt with all the talks of “let’s hang out”… I played my smart card a lot in here 🤭🤭 .
Long story short, only recently I decided to add his contact to the phone I have my WhatsApp activated so I could check up randomly via chat and not unnecessarily forming calls and thinking of stuff to say on the phone to reduce weirdness.
Yes, we chatted a few times till boom, baba picture-mixed himself and a newly born child and wrote of how happy he was and how he couldn’t believe he was a dad!
Well, being me, I responded to the post and congratulated him. He responded and almost immediately resumed the how he didnt believe he was a dad and blah talks.
So I asked…
“Weren’t you expecting that the whole journey of nine (9) months will come to an end?” (Peradventure that would prompt him to say he didn’t know the lady was pregnant the whole time or something). Baba replied that he was but “it doesn’t change what he has for me”… you are permitted to blink small here because even I that was being spoken to there had to read again to know I saw that right!!!
And I’m like, “aren’t you legally married?”
He responded that he is.
I had to ask again that doesn’t he love his wife… He said he does!! And that he does with his whole life!!! I replied with “Awesome” and finished off the talk how it should, politely…
How do these guys do it!!? How do they
claim to love and respect their spouse and do stuff as disgusting as cheating and also make unsuspecting single ladies suffer in the process.
And trust me, this is personally not my first experience. If I didn’t have a renewed mind, I would have thought so much on how many of those sorta encounters I’ve had and probably related him to some bad women but I realize some can just be that plainly dirty people! Sad thing is, they know and really do not care!!!
Anyways, that’s not the talk…
Talk is, is there any enlightenment you’d like to share on this because I bloody am irritated!!!