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RAPE: An Act That Can Occur From Both Genders?

So last week, I reblogged an old post that was originally dated 2016 and got loads of comments even in my personal chats platform. See post via https://horptiehottalks.com/2016/05/23/learning-to-say-no/ … I decided there and then to write something as regards the responses I got as many guys expressed their opinions on how being persuasive/manipulative doesn’t equal rape.

Truth be told, using rape may very well be a too-strong word to express whatever it is that may have gone done in the scenario painted https://horptiehottalks.com/2016/05/23/learning-to-say-no/ , but yes, I also needed to get some affirmative views from my readers. So I say “Thank You” for going lengths to speak up on the subject.

Today, more or less what I have for you on the blog is how consent from both parties is very very, infact extremely important. Don’t take it for granted that you are both dating and presumably in love and that automatically equals agreement to indulge in all acts of romance and maybe ultimately sex (this I have my reservations about anyways).

I have been confronted with talks of how a lady can manipulatively rape a guy… this, I’m not totally convinced about though but it is from a reader’s view and so can not be dismissed. All my readers are important actually.

So, let’s say I agree. What constitutes scenarios of a lady raping a guy??

I absolutely would love to hear from you, anything… even painted scenarios that may not have happened but you can think of.

Love Always,
Horptie.

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8 Comments

  • Ibukundimeji
    June 25, 2020 at 7:22 pm

    It’s very possible for a lady to rape a guy. I remember treating some cases in school and how these ladies were convicted. Although rape is more prominent on the part of the guys but we shouldn’t overlook that of the ladies also. Consent from both parties are vital. Sex without consent amounts to rape and like you stated, once a person is persuaded it doesn’t amount to rape(so far person’s involved are not underage).✌

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    • rue202
      July 2, 2020 at 11:18 pm

      Very much agreed!

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    • horptie
      July 3, 2020 at 9:31 am

      I like that information you highlighted in bracket… very very important!!
      Thankj you so much for this enlightenment Ibukun .

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  • Alhfarouk
    June 25, 2020 at 8:49 pm

    From the guy’s perspective it’s a rape but from the female it’s sexual violence as a female can’t be said to have raped a guy.

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  • rue202
    July 2, 2020 at 11:17 pm

    I think it can happen if the girl forces the guy to have sex with her – through guilt tripping him, manipulation, being controlling.

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    • horptie
      July 3, 2020 at 9:24 am

      Hmmm, I guess this angle is very well possible by the acts you listed.
      Everyone just really needs to be sure of voluntary consent before further acts are done.

      Thank you Rue!!

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      • rue202
        July 3, 2020 at 10:19 pm

        Agreed – making sure of voluntary consent is important.

        Anytime!!!!!

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        • horptie
          July 6, 2020 at 2:33 pm

          Thank you so much for your time and contribution Rue.

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